Who Can Come to Shower
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Who Can Come to Shower |
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Who Can Come to Shower |
Dear Wendy,
My best friend is getting married this summer. She is having her dream wedding far away from where we live. Because of the location, several of our college friends are not included on the guest list. Some people feel a bit excluded. As maid of honor, I would really like to throw her a shower. Is is rude to invite people to a shower for someone who's wedding they will not attend?? Many of our friends have had weddings in the last few years, and she has always supported them in their big events. Now it is her turn, but I do not want to offend people by asking them to a shower. What is your advice? - Elizabeth
My best friend is getting married this summer. She is having her dream wedding far away from where we live. Because of the location, several of our college friends are not included on the guest list. Some people feel a bit excluded. As maid of honor, I would really like to throw her a shower. Is is rude to invite people to a shower for someone who's wedding they will not attend?? Many of our friends have had weddings in the last few years, and she has always supported them in their big events. Now it is her turn, but I do not want to offend people by asking them to a shower. What is your advice? - Elizabeth
Hi Elizabeth,
Sorry, but it is not acceptable to invite a guest to a shower where a gift is expected and then not invite them to the celebration. From your question I will assume those being left out are all college buddies. How about a bachelorette party? Or what about a grown up slumber party? Just girls in their pj's, eating pop corn, spreading gossip, and sharing good times. An event of this type is often more memorable than the traditional shower because it is on a more personal level and has fewer people involved.
Happiness always,
Wendy
Wendy
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